sept 16th

When people are rude or mean to me, I know it’s just a self reflection of how they feel. So before I talk bad back or spread things behind their back, I rather ask them why instead. For example a young man was spreading bad lies about me. This upset me very much because I knew they weren’t true, but others did not. Instead of doing the same thing back, instead I asked him why he did that. His response was very vague and it was almost as if he felt bad. I told him hey man it’s fine but just don’t do it again. I told him to defend my name if he heard others bringing it down and he agreed. 

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